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'96 Neve Campbell

    Heyo its me uh so there is a girl in the room next door to mine who i really like. Things were kinda awkward at first cuz i didnt know if she was into girls (im female) but there was this one night where we just kinda hit it off, I admitted I had feelings for her and we had a passionate session of making out and touching.etc. Yet the next day she went cold and acted like I was dead to her. We only talked about what happened between us over text and she told me its because she is anxious. I went the whole week not knowing what she felt and feeling like I had messed up but yesterday she came back to me and had an emotional breakdown and made me promise her I would be her best friend, yet immediately afterwards we cuddled and ended up spooning on the bed all night. We decided we wont talk about how we feel and what we do outside of my bedroom but I obviously want to evolve our friendship into a relationship. Does anyone on this forum have any ideas as to how I can make her mine? :) ty

    Aimstrong

      asking for bi advice on a pure incel forum, what a time to arrive home from the army

      Väinämöinen

        cant give advice, need more detailed information regarding the first paragraph.

        Yours sincerely,
        Relationshipcoach

        some video material would help a lot, too

        Väinämöinen

          tbh that sounds like a complete mentally broken person. Sometimes these crazy/manic depressive can be quite attractive early, but once it goes beyond the phyical relationship you're in for the big time trouble.

          Feachairu

            probably just keep being friends for now(dun overrush things),if you keep the relationship/friendship long enuf mayb you got the chances to confess too in the future or something like yer fren will grow to like/love you too

            i really dunno if i should gib advice actually lol,being gay is bad but ppl hav their preferences so is fin

            edit:edited some wording lol,i feel lik the last sentence is kinda too offensive

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            Väinämöinen

              I feel like parmaviolets is fat and has a sidecut, out of respect ofc

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                Vertoxity

                  Imagine how sad you have to be to actually ask such a question on a stupid forum related to Dota 2

                  Zarse

                    at this point, the meta shit posting is so intense I can't even tell if the guy is being ironic or not

                    LegendaryHD

                      I am an experience man in this easy world, tell her this.
                      First only do this when you are sure she is on good and close feeling.

                      "Hei, umm... Btw do you want to be my girlfriend?"
                      "Well you know I'm not that kind of person, I'm into boys sorry"
                      "Hmm if you give me a try I can make you into one if you want?"
                      Her inner lesbian will came and you can scissor her next week possibly.

                      kuci

                        asking for bi advice on a pure incel forum, what a time to arrive home from the army

                        xD

                        '96 Neve Campbell

                          Imagine how sad you have to be to actually ask such a question on a stupid forum related to Dota 2

                          Imagine how sad it must be looking like a 46 year old pedophile in your 20s.

                          foxZ

                            real men dont like listen lesbian shit. you know waht i mean? but sounds of hahaha nah dont read me

                            xboy

                              If youve never made out with two girls after they made out with each other dont speak on this. Please

                              foxZ

                                you alrady listen the lady legendary get out of here man

                                im sorry im gonna excuse myself of this thread. cuz real mens dont stay in places where are no queridos

                                adioses

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                                MuLLi

                                  Lick it!

                                  Ritsu x boni = 0 IQ

                                    yawa kontol goblok anjing

                                    rofl

                                      ask her to hang out in REAL LIFE. Nobody wants to text all fucking day, ask her to chill and do whatever it is you do and see if you hit things off. Either she's attracted to you or not. Is she even into girls? Don't waste your time if she isn't.

                                      lesserafim

                                        asking for relationship advice on dotabuff
                                        good one kevin

                                        one syllable anglo-saxon

                                          this reads like poor fanfiction

                                          AnŦaiN

                                            What the fuck ? Eww

                                            MuLLi

                                              ^Not what the fuck because we know which fuck =D

                                              Just what to do whit it

                                              DemonicTrashcan

                                                You're looking for advice on escalating friendships to relationships? Here?

                                                Now if you were looking for tips on how to stay in the friendzone, I'm sure there would be a lot of input our community could give.

                                                Subaru

                                                  I cant believe you ask that here, we are all clowns here dude XDDDDDD

                                                  Vertoxity

                                                    @paramaviolets,

                                                    While I agree that I indeed look a bit older than I am, at least I don’t have any issuses showing myself to the world.

                                                    This is who I am and I fully accept it.

                                                    You, on the other hand are self-proclaimed female with no real evidence to actually support that.

                                                    On a top of that, you even come up with excuses such as “ummm, males are so freaking rude in Dota, so I have to hide who I really am”

                                                    Face the reality, no one gives a fuck about your social life on a dota forum and I can assure you the only one loooking like a meme here is you for no other reasons but your stupid irrational behavior and your lack of emotional inteligence.

                                                    kowareta

                                                      is that really u @DDOD? xD

                                                      Aimstrong

                                                        i'm pretty sure exposing irl pics is against the code of conduct, not as if anyone (mods) cares about it lol

                                                        '96 Neve Campbell

                                                          It is againt the code of conduct but so is everything that everyone does on this forum lol. This thread is against the code of conduct by nature.

                                                          Anyway there is actually some not bad advice buried in here to thanks for your contributions

                                                          lesserafim

                                                            is the above picture a person who posts on these forums or am i retarded

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                                                            lesserafim

                                                              google search turns nothing up

                                                              OH NONONONO

                                                              '96 Neve Campbell

                                                                ^Its what vertox looks like irl

                                                                kowareta

                                                                  tnx god. im not feeling guilty any more about everything i said about parma now. she deserves more.

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                                                                  Geckolimus

                                                                    @parma
                                                                    It is really not cool to be posting other people’s photo if you haven’t obtain his permission. Especially when you don’t post one of yourself.

                                                                    Mod please do something about this TY. Else I might consider stopping my paid subscription here.

                                                                    Regards
                                                                    Gecko

                                                                    Väinämöinen

                                                                      still waiting for more details

                                                                      Vertoxity

                                                                        I dont mind her posting my pics, you can literally open up my youtube and Facebook profiles from here, so he/she didnt do anything wrong.

                                                                        It’s just stupid argument to have when you’re arguing.

                                                                        Instead of making fun of someone, fixing your life instead would do you no harm. :)

                                                                        '96 Neve Campbell

                                                                          1. All of his pics are super easily accessible, his links are in his bio

                                                                          2. The guy always acts like a dick on every thread I post so I have the right to defend myself by pointing out that hes only like that cause hes an incel

                                                                          3. Its all just a joke anyway x)

                                                                          ywn

                                                                            can i have the pornhub link?

                                                                            kowareta

                                                                              3. Its all just a joke anyway x)

                                                                              :axe_laugh: :axe_laugh:
                                                                              oh man
                                                                              :axe_laugh: :axe_laugh:

                                                                              DC.MASON

                                                                                im an anime girl uwu

                                                                                '96 Neve Campbell

                                                                                  I do like animay uwu

                                                                                  one syllable anglo-saxon

                                                                                    "its a joke but also i am immune to criticism from u because youre balding and have acne scars xD"

                                                                                    Feachairu

                                                                                      even if it's accessible i tink is bad lol to post someone's pic on internet without permission

                                                                                      i tink for the relationship since you guys already maybe like best friend just keep hanging out and do the stuff that you both like
                                                                                      (if dunno the stuff you both like,find it since if you want long time relationship or marriage need to at least know wat they love,wat they hate or basically almost all of them tbh since people doesnt made from all everything gud)
                                                                                      if you both keep doing the stuff you like over and over again,i'm sur you can get closer and you can understand more do you want to be with this person or not and wat kind of stuff do we nid to improve on if we really going(like,i tink people need to get their compability too,ex if you're a lazybum you basically dun wan to be with another lazybum lol,gonna be hard later to manage the household i guess)

                                                                                      imo that way better rather than being clingy or some kind of yolo confessing(and fail) then stop being in contact anymore(not that close anymore),at least you can still keep as a friend to support each other
                                                                                      seems like ye close enuf tho,even do that spoon share food thingy

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                                                                                      one syllable anglo-saxon

                                                                                        seems like ye close enuf tho,even do that spoon share food thingy

                                                                                        thats not what spooning means man

                                                                                        Feachairu

                                                                                          wt
                                                                                          it's not the romantic stuff you see on dramas or mango?

                                                                                          one syllable anglo-saxon

                                                                                            no, spooning is when 2 people lay next to each other in such a way that one (big spoon) hugs the other from behind (small spoon)

                                                                                            google it, i'm not very good with explanations

                                                                                            Feachairu

                                                                                              o its hugging

                                                                                              lesserafim

                                                                                                LMAO

                                                                                                ywn

                                                                                                  wait till u see a pic of huntergatherer

                                                                                                  AnŦaiN

                                                                                                    Being lesbiann or gayy is bad . Have u ever seen even a donkeyy or a dogg doing hommo ? Didnt anyone tell u that . Just leave her and find a good man .

                                                                                                    L.

                                                                                                      Have u ever seen even a donkeyy or a dogg doing hommo ?

                                                                                                      Yes

                                                                                                      ywn

                                                                                                        Being lesbiann or gayy is bad . Have u ever seen even a donkeyy or a dogg doing hommo ? Didnt anyone tell u that . Just leave her and find a good man .